This day — your wedding day — can truly go however you want it to go.

Wake up in a mountain chalet to sunlight and the unmistakable scent of Juniper mixed with dirt. Take the pups on a hike. Hop in a helicopter for the mountain views of a lifetime.

Hold your ceremony at dusk — feet in the grass, the love of your life standing in front of you. Promise yourself you’ll never stop seeking out wonder together.

When the sun starts to set, venture to the beach and trash your dress in the Pacific Ocean. Laugh together as the waves knock you over. Marvel at how beautiful life is.

And instead of planning out all the details, let me. One perfectionist to another, I know how tempting (and exciting) it can be to map out every single moment. But this is your wedding day. You deserve to sit back and feel surprised by the magic of it all.